Let Your Boyfriend Brag About You!
Most of us men hate suspicious girlfriends. If you can’t trust me, you’re not with the right guy. Don’t get caught up questioning where we have been or searching my phone. Put your faith in what you have together and I’ll be more likely to live up to your expectations.
2. Keep your focus
Don’t make the relationship your only focus. You have a life of your own apart from your relationship. It’s what made you interesting to me in the first place. However, remember that your life also includes me and don’t do with others what you refuse to do with me.
3. Be honest
If I ask you what’s wrong, tell me. Let me know what you think and what you need. Don’t make me guess what is wrong if there’s a problem.
4. Be attentive
There’s a big difference between being attentive and just being clingy when you’re out together. You shouldn’t need to prove to the world that you’re together — it makes you seem needy. And never flirt with my friends under any circumstances. Just remember to keep it equal don’t just leave me there alone but make sure you don’t over cling. You and only you know the happy medium.
5. No nagging
Don’t argue or hassle all the time. Nagging will just make me tune out and besides, it’s a waste of time for both of you. Show you care but make sure you don’t make me think you just want it your way. I will compromise if you do.
6. Respect his space
I don’t always want to talk about my feelings or be your constant companion 24/7. Pressuring me into being together all of the time or discussing my problems will only push me away. It’s not that I don’t ever want to talk but I just don’t want to talk right now. Be patient and I’ll be the one to initiate more time together and more intimate conversations. Take it slow and allow the relationship to develop naturally.
7. Don’t try to change him
Don’t be with me so that you can change me. I like myself for who I am and expects that you do, too, if you want to be with me, and not your version of me. If you don’t like the way I dress, what I say or my occupation, I’m probably not the one for you. I accepted you for who you are, and you have to be willing to do the same for me.
They seem simple in a sense but watch how hard it is for you to bite your tongue and give it a try. The funnies part is I could re post this as “how to be a better Man in her life” and it would work just the same.